Love is in the air, or is it?...

Do you have a busted Man-picker?
Valentine’s Day. If you’re in love, it’s a great holiday. If you’re not, it’s not so great. If you’re plagued by thoughts of what you did wrong and what you could have done differently in love, then read on. Maybe you are in a relationship, and you’re ready to move it to the next level. If you are, read on. In just a moment, I’m going to give you the secrets of finding that special love⎯maybe your soul mate⎯and keeping him once you have found him. 

But before we do that, I’m going to share a story with you that is pretty embarrassing.

Are you a serial dater? I was!

Suzanne Muller, Author
I'm Suzanne Muller and I was a serial dater for eight long years, but now I'm engaged to be married to the man of my dreams! 

But before that, I I experienced the whole world of what the dating scene has to offer: I was stood up, cheated on and stalked. I was broken up with over text messaging and voice mail, and even on the delivery end of a few broken hearts. I read books, talked to my girlfriends, dated online, really gave my heart. Despite all my hard work I wasn’t getting anywhere. In all honesty, I had to come face to face with the reality that I had developed some habits that just weren’t working. Listen to my story, then I'll tell you what I did to TURN THINGS AROUND!

Jilted!
A few years ago, I was in an exclusive dating relationship—or so I thought. One day, as I was sitting in a business meeting, I received an email from a stranger. The email said that the man I was dating had been her boyfriend for the last year. She had also copied several other women on the email after hacking into his computer to inform all of us of his actions and behavior. I was devastated and shocked when I learned the man I had been dating was cheating on me. Things like that didn’t happen to me. Not only was he cheating on me, but he was doing so with at least four other women. When he confirmed all this, the news rocked me to my core.

Loveable book cover
Has something like that ever happened to you? This is what I like to call having a Busted Man-Picker!  When you’ve come out of an unhealthy relationship or been blind-sided yourself and you question your ability to choose a good partner.

I will show you how to learn to trust yourself again and regain your confidence in picking great and wonderful men to be in relationship with. 
You’ll also learn things like: 
  • The reason women don’t feel capable of having a healthy relationship that can last. I want you to know to your bones that you can fully love a man, that he can completely love you, and that you will love and honor yourself, first and foremost.
  • How by complaining to your single friends, you are only sabotaging your chances of finding love
  • How asking for what you want can get you what you want
  • How to disrupt and dispose of habits that are left-over from your previous relationships.
Now, I want to share with you what my reader Sarah had to say about my new book: Loveable - 21 Practices for Being in a Loving & Fulfilling Relationship

Sarah
"…With the help of Suzanne and her book ‘Lovable’ I’ve started to de-clutter my brain of my negative beliefs about dating, relationships and love, and my gremlins are getting quieter and quieter. Whenever they try to raise their voice I pick up the book and reread one of the chapters.  After some sessions and shortly after reading the book f
for the first time I met someone very special and it’s been going incredibly wonderful, so I’m very grateful to Suzanne and her invaluable lessons!” – Sarah

What if you could learn the skills to maintain, nurture and sustain a fulfilling relationship? How would this know-how impact your confidence?

A New, Revolutionary Approach to Dating

You are busy and your time is precious, which is why I put together this new approach. This is not a “how to date” book, although it will give you lots of ideas about how to meet someone, how to interact better with a man, and most of all, how to be a woman men want to be in a partnership with.

What if you could exude more of your natural & divine feminine energy and be completely desirable? If this has gotten you curious, then read on.

Date the men of your dreams…
I’m going to give you a few simple steps to find the man of your dreams.  I have developed the Loveable methods over not only years of dating, but also years of talking with hundreds of women just like you as a relationship and love coach. My clients have seen amazing results in their lives. Wouldn’t you want to be one of the people who has used these methods and had them work? Here’s a story about someone they have worked for.

Donna’s story

Donna
“About 20 years ago, I married the man I thought I’d be with for the rest of my life. After 14 years of marriage and two beautiful children, my husband announced he was unhappy, and he left. This wasn’t what I signed up for; what about ‘til death do us part? So now what? I’m forty and alone and know no other life. 
“After a couple of relationships that were just not right, I contacted Suzanne. With her techniques, I actually began to look forward to going on a date. I started going out dancing, and one night while dancing with an attractive man, I found him, the man of my dreams. Something about this guy was magical, and we were married 6 months later!”

Dating seems so simple, and yet....

If you have been wondering, “Why isn’t there a manual to help me find a man that wants me for who I am, as I am?” then wonder no more. Here is a methodology that can help you find and keep the relationship of your dreams! 

I want to share with you what I learned about the most important ingredients you need to have a great relationship.

The 3 Top Ingredients of a Great Relationship

Being in a loving and fulfilling relationship of your dreams⎯for anyone, anywhere⎯always includes these three very important ingredients:
  • Don’t let your past get in the way of having love
  • Ask for what you want
  • Fix your busted man-picker

Tip #1 – Don’t let what happened in the past run your life Today
A man wants you to be interested in what is important to him. And YOU CAN’T keep your attention on ANY man if you are carrying your past relationship problems into your current date!

Tip #2 Let a man make you happy! Ask for What You Want!
Have you ever gotten the feeling that your man doesn’t know how to make you happy? It’s because we women sometimes keep our men guessing. We think, “He should just know what I want.” Listen carefully: He doesn’t have a clue! You have to tell him what you want. Make it clear. Tell him what is important to you, what you want and how you want it. Something we women overlook all the time is that men really do want to make us happy. Don’t leave your man guessing.

From Loveable
You cannot tell a man half of what will make you happy. You cannot be vague about what will make you happy. You have to be clear and direct, yet kind. Can you see why it’s important?

On page 27 of Loveable, I give you the 3 steps to do this!

Tip #3 How to Fix The Busted Man-Picker 
Ask yourself, “As a woman, what kind of man could make me feel fulfilled for a lifetime?” I call this new perspective your “fulfillment list.” I guide you, step-by-step, in digging deeper and being specific about what will truly fulfill you. 

Alice
The 21 practices in this book are short, simple, to the point, easy to apply… and they work! I tried them myself and got tremendous results in my relationship. If you’re disillusioned, disappointed, or cynical and resigned about finding a healthy romantic relationship, Loveable will help you see the dating world from 21 new perspectives and show you how to take 21 giant steps toward lasting love….” – Alice

I Want You to Have YOUR Loving and Fulfilling Relationship

You can figure it out yourself or save yourself several years of painful trial and error with Loveable – 21 Practices for Being in a Loving and Fulfilling Relationship.

AND There's More! For a Limited Time...
Order Little Book of Big Love with Loveable and get three special bonuses!
Little Book of Big Love
My good friend David Lazaroff has written the perfect companion to Loveable - 21 Practices for Being in a Loving and Fulfilling Relationship, the Little Book of Big Love - 50 Ways to Express and Acknowledge Love with Words.

The Little Book of Big Love gives you:

  • Secrets to Expressing and Acknowledging Love
  • Secrets to having your love heard and received!
  • Learn the secrets of having your love understood!
Here is a secret about the nature of love that is explained in Little Book of Big Love: There is one overwhelmingly popular phrase used to express love: “I love you!” The problem is that we all have grown up using this single phrase and different people can mean very different things by these three words.

The Problem with “I Love You”

It’s TRUE! When you tell someone, “I love you,” they do not hear it newly, as you mean it, but THEY hear it in the old way they’ve always listened to “I love you.”

The GOOD NEWS is that when you know the secret of relating to “love” so that you can speak of in many different ways, THEN you can express your love for another in a fresh way and be heard exactly as you want to be. Here are three aspects of love explored in Little Book of Big Love:
  • Aspect 1: Expressing Your Love for Another
  • Aspect 2: Acknowledging Another’s Love for You
  • Aspect 3: Acknowledging Mutual Love
Little Book of Big Love introduces you to a new way of seeing, experiencing, expressing, and acknowledging love.

Michelle Voeller, Yoga Studio Owner
Little Book of Big Love helps me explore the many avenues of expressing love. It has helped me communicate how I really feel with people who are close to me. I will be keeping it nearby for my relationships!” - Michelle Voeller, Yoga Studio Owner

17 Ways to express your love for another

You don't want to be misunderstood again! Contemplate the 17 ways to express your love for another that are in Little Book of Big Love

Michelle Marison
“I like when you say, ‘have a physical feeling of love in your chest’. The more you can let me connect my physical sensations with love, the more I am able to feel love while I am reading and really get related to what you are saying. As I read, I re-experience palpable sensations of love in my heart.” – Michelle Marison, Marketing professional

21 Ways to acknowledge another's love for you

You want to get your point across even when others are being difficult or resisting hearing you. Even when you don’t feel the same about the other person, you can still leave them feeling acknowledged. So, Little Book of Big Love gives you 21 ways you can try out! Certainly not all of these ways are appropriate to every situation. This is exactly why there are 21 ways for you!

12 Ways to acknowledge mutual love

Does the love with your partner need an elevator to get out of the basement? These are the juicy ways to bring focus on the true strengths and impacts of being in relationship.

Christina Surretsky, Author and Blogger
“I think you do a great job of expressing the sentiment of love in so many different ways, and you give great explanations for these words. I have nothing to say except just keep going! (For the record, my favorite is “Take my love with you.”)” – Christina Surretsky, Mom, blogger, and author.

Little Book of Big Love has the secrets to having your love heard and understood in the way you mean it.
  • Your love is not just like everyone else's
  • Others don't have feelings just like your feelings
  • Everyone already has their own idea of what "I love you" means
  • You deserve to have your own way to express your love
  • You feel love in different ways for different people
  • You want new ways to let people know how you appreciate their love

50 MORE Ways to Express and Acknowledge Love

Little Book of Big Love gives you 50 ways to express and acknowledge love with words. BUT, it does not stop there! Little Book of Big Love is a workbook! Read and contemplate each of the 50 ways and then write your own personal way to express and acknowledge love in the lined workbook pages provided. This makes it easy and convenient to work on your relationships whether you are on a bus, a train, a plane, or curled up on the couch.

3 Special Bonuses!

Order Loveable - 21 Practices for Being in a Loving and Fulfilling Relationship
WITH 
Little Book of Big Love - 50 Ways to Express and Acknowledge Love with Words
AND get three bonuses:
For a Limited Time, buy Loveable and Little Book of Big Love, and get these  3 Bonuses

Bonus #1: The Audiobook of Loveable - 21 Practices for Being in a Loving and Fulfilling Relationship 

The audio book version of Loveable is read to you by the author Suzanne Muller. Some people learn from the written word and some people learn by hearing things. I want you to have both versions so you can listen to Loveable while you’re driving or while you’re exercising to internalize these important practices that will help you attract the love of your life or expand the love that is already there. Have some fun with it! You can listen to the audio version of Loveable while you’re on a hike in the woods, luxuriating in a nice bath, or just hanging around the house. 

The audiobook of Loveable, valued at $24.95, is a great way to go over the practices again and again to make them habits in your life. Then you can sit in the coffee shop or your favorite chair at home and write out the exercises for all the chapters.

Bonus #2:  Little Book of Big Love - 50 Ways to Express and Acknowledge Love with Words

With this special offer, you will be one of the first to have this audiobook, valued at $14.95, when it is released March 1, 2014.

Bonus #3: Suzanne's Women’s Love & Dating Cheat-Sheet

Not available anywhere else! You will get with this offer a special Women's Love & Dating Cheat-Sheet for you to evaluate your dates! This is something normally available only to my Love-Life Coaching customers.

If you act by February 28, you get Loveable (normally $15.95), with Little Book of Big Love (normally $14.95) for $29.95. PLUS you get 3 FREE bonuses:
  1. Loveable audio version mp3 download (normally $24.95) 
  2. Little Book of Big Love Audio Version mp3 download (normally $14.95) 
  3. Suzanne's Love & Dating Cheat-sheet (normally available only to coaching clients)
If you were to buy the books an audio books separately the cost would be $75.80. But for this Valentine's special, you get EVERYTHING FOR THE LOW, LOW PRICE OF $29.95, a savings of 60 %. This is like getting the audio books and Dating Scorecard for free!

You have heard it all. You’ve got it all. Click here now to give it all to yourself! 

To your Success in Finding Love, Having Love and Expressing Your Love!

Suzanne Muller

Suzanne Muller,
Author, Loveable - 21 Practices for Being in a Loving and Fulfilling Relationship